My cousin Mike and his wife Shari asked me about doing their family portraits back in November when we were together at my parents home. Mike has been trying for some time to get Shari to agree to the photo session but Shari (as beautiful as she is) has never liked having her photo taken. A lot of people feel the same way and it's no wonder.The camera's "eye" captures what it sees, however it sees it. The human eye (together with the brain) has the ability to "see what it wants to" and to ignore unimportant or unwanted details. Our brain interprets what we see. When we look at a photo of ourselves, it's actually the same thing that others see every day only it's frozen in time. Unfortunately, for many, we tend to focus on things we don't like about ourselves, some imperfection, our weight, age, or anything. People that know and love us don't focus on our appearance the way we do. They see a photo (or our face) and associate the person (who we are) with the photo and not so much every perceived imperfection.
It's my job to help my subjects see how beautiful they really are. In the case of Shari and Mike, it wasn't hard and I'm so stoked at how the photos came out. I'm even more excited that I could really change Shari's mind about having her photograph taken. This is one of the things I like best about being a photographer.
















































